SPEAKING & LISTENING
Children need lots of opportunities to talk with others as they develop and practise their speaking and listening skills. This helps to build their confidence and improves their ability to communicate with other people. This is a really important aspect of learning to socialise and will help your child feel confident making relationships.
Everyday activities such as preparing meals, tidying up, putting shopping away and getting ready to go out, offer you chances to talk to your child, explaining what you are doing. They hear the way language is put together into sentences for a purpose.
Books are a rich source of new words for your child – words you would not use in everyday conversations appear in books. Children need to have a wide stock of words (vocabulary) to understand the meaning of books, so read aloud and share books as often as you can. They will enjoy it and it will be useful to them when they come across these words in their own reading later on.
Make time to listen to your child talking – as you meet them from school, as you walk, or travel home by car, in the supermarket as you shop at meal times, bath times, bedtimes – any time! Switch off the TV, radio, and mobile phones – and really listen! Show that you are interested in what they are talking about – look at your child, smile, nod your head, ask a question, or make a response to show that you really have been listening. Use puppets and toys to make up stories or retell known ones. Record your child telling the story and play it back to them.
READING:
Research proves that children who enjoy reading do better at school in all subjects. Below are some ideas to support your child’s engagement in reading. For support on early reading or our decodable Bug Club Phonics books, please see our Phonics information page.
- Encourage your child to read: Reading helps your child’s wellbeing, develops imagination and has educational benefits too. Just a few minutes a day can have a big impact on children of all ages.
- Read aloud regularly - Try to read to your child every day. It’s a special time to snuggle up and enjoy a story. Stories matter and children love re-reading them and poring over the pictures. Try adding funny voices to bring characters to life
- Encourage reading choice - Give children lots of opportunities to read different things in their own time - it doesn’t just have to be books. There’s fiction, non-fiction, poetry, comics, magazines, recipes and much more. Try leaving interesting reading material in different places around the home and see who picks it up.
- Make use of your local library - Local libraries also offer brilliant online materials, including audiobooks and ebooks to borrow.
- Talk about books - This is a great way to make connections, develop understanding and make reading even more enjoyable. Start by discussing the front cover and talking about what it reveals and suggests the book could be about. Then talk about what you’ve been reading and share ideas. You could discuss something that happened that surprised you, or something new that you found out. You could talk about how the book makes you feel and whether it reminds you of anything.
- Bring reading to life - You could try cooking a recipe you’ve read together. Would you recommend it to a friend? Alternatively, play a game where you pretend to be the characters in a book, or discuss an interesting article you’ve read.
- Make reading active - Play games that involve making connections between pictures, objects and words, such as reading about an object and finding similar things in your home. You could organise treasure hunts related to what you’re reading. Try creating your child’s very own book by using photos from your day and adding captions.
- Engage your child in reading in a way that suits them - You know your child best and you’ll know the best times for your child to read. If they have special educational needs and disabilities (SEND) then short, creative activities may be the way to get them most interested. If English is an additional language, encourage reading in a child’s first language, as well as in English. What matters most is that they enjoy it.
WRITING:
Early writing activities:
· Encourage children to look for print in their environment – road signs, food packets, shops, catalogues etc
· Try activities to develop fine motor skills e.g. cutting, using playdough, using tweezers, using clothes pegs, tracing
· Encourage your child to hold the pencil in the ‘tripod’ grip between the thumb and first two fingers
· Use a chalkboard to write family messages on
· Make labels for things around the house
· Write a shopping list – real or imaginary! Or any other sort of list
· Letter formation – practise forming letters using paint, in sand, using playdough or pastry
· Let your child write their own Christmas cards or birthday cards to people
· Use magnetic letters – your child can leave a message on the fridge
· Encourage and praise early squiggles and marks which show your child is beginning to understand writing.
Improving Writers:
· Write party invitations
· Encourage children to write thank you letters after birthdays and Christmas
· Write postcards when on holiday
· Write a menu for a family meal or party
· Email a family member or friend
· Make a scrap book with labels and captions – maybe after a holiday or special event
· Write short stories involving the adventures of their favourite toys
· Write an information leaflet about something they find interesting eg. dinosaurs, sports etc
· Write a letter to a favourite author
· nvent and write rules for the house, bedroom etc. and put on a poster
· Draw, label and explain their own inventions. Make up silly sentences and tongue twisters.
More confident writers:
· Write a diary
· Make up song lyrics
· Plan their own party
· Write a story for a younger family member, in the style of their favourite book
· Write a holiday journal
· Write instructions for an X-box game, Minecraft or similar
· Write a recipe
· Write instructions for a more mature member of the family (eg . grandparent) for a piece of modern technology they can’t get to grips with!
· Channel their passions – RSPCA, WWF, ActionAid etc. all have ideas for getting children involved in raising awareness of campaigns
· Write to the local newspaper about a local issue they feel strongly about or even to the local MP
· Talk to different generations of family about their life and compile a family history
· Make up jokes
· Look out for writing competitions eg. Radio 2’s annual 500 Word Competition. (A prize is always an incentive to write!)
It’s also an incentive to write if there is a range of exciting writing materials available – pencils, crayons, felt tips, sparkly pens, writing icings, writing soaps for bathtime, coloured papers, different shape and sizes of paper etc. Most of these things are available quite cheaply these days in places like Poundland. Try to remember to focus on and praise the content of any writing your child shares with you, rather than dwelling on any mistakes they may have made. Hopefully the variety of activities listed here have provided you with plenty of ideas to help and encourage your child to have a go at doing some writing at home.